20-year-old unmarried girl adopt abandoned baby in April
- To raise funds for the abandoned baby went to Beijing society doctor
Text / Yi Meng 09/07/05
Recently, an article published in the Sheng Nuoya forum is more than to save an abandoned baby in April to discuss fund-raising posts, deeply moved the hearts of complex feelings, mixed feelings.
In this paper, Chen Man Shandong Heze in a rural girl to a 20-year-old middle school, the town’s hospitals in a particular job, occupation is a nurse. In February this year, picked up a baby girl in the hospital when the baby but for four days, as were diagnosed bulging dura. Thus abandoned by his parents in the hospital, then I do not know to his family members.
Chen Man, after seeing the child, to call his mother and his family, his family rushed to the hospital, compassion sudden and devastating, this girl took the decision to adopt. Coordinated by the Government after, this girl sent to a local nursing home, do not want the child deteriorated, unattended, Chen Man and his mother could not bear to see this child died. So, once again hold the baby home, go to Beijing after seeking treatment.
What a difficult journey, arriving in Beijing, the dispossessed, who brought the money, not enough pay the child’s hospital expenses, not to mention the several million of surgery. When his family would send their children to the General Hospital of PLA 301 Hospital, the community began to seek help. Get the help of volunteers in Beijing, the Chouqi the surgery costs. And on the afternoon of June 30, the children finish the first course of surgery, safe and sound.
Although relieved, but the child’s future is not optimistic. This name is Chen Nan hospital staff named the baby, even if treated, restored, will also lower limb paralysis, as partners with the wheelchair. But Chen Man and his mother was in tears v. said: “As long as we are alive, be sure to raise the baby on the adult. No matter how much distance during the hard, how difficult. Have not seen the child, and then abandoned . “
Chen Man’s uncle suffers from aplastic poor, now recuperating at home in the Chen Man, and its treatment have spent all their savings at home. However, such a no blood for the abandoned babies, Chen Man 47 year-old mother has given up at home to look natural brother, and accompanied her daughter to Beijing with Chen Nan doctor holding a small, 70-year-old grandmother is also accompanied with persevering, water and soil service, sick, before returning home, really is to all who know the truth moved.
Today, volunteers from the mouth of Yuyao that the child may be discharged in three days, then returned to Shandong to visit his rest, one month can be removed after the wound line. At this point, another concern is that we have and very impoverished families, the elderly mixed, it is faced with Chen Man does not solve the problem of unemployment, combined with a dressing change at any time should the treatment of children, their lives will be how to continue?
Now public opinion, has affected the family life. It was rumored that the child is the illegitimate son of Chen Man mother was the unmarried son of Chen Man legend. They have asked the hospital to find information about their real parents, but the hospital is not no information, but not to support, not to the query.
Can we bear to look at good-hearted people, and thus unable to extricate themselves in difficult it? To the social appeal to the community caring for the family to the appropriate help, even if it is an encouragement, a greeting, give them the courage to survive. To arouse public attention, want to find the child through social concern his parents and hope that through public concern, public opinion in trouble for this family ruled out.
Shandong team of volunteers hope to see this information, can give this a family concern, and to give assistance was to pay tribute to the world’s good people!
Information: http://www.snoah.cn/viewthread.php?tid=9506
The picture shows the two-year-old unmarried girl Chen Man its residue after the operation in the flavor of milk (small fish photo)
Postscript: This story reminds me a lot of years have seen the TV series “Desire”, the theme song of hope sung, the good life of peace!
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Thank the “Beijing Times” published in Social Science: unmarried female nurses adopt abandoned baby severely disabled
My family classic sentence
Man / Liu Fei Lu
2010/06/07
Sister said: “The girl, cast a cleaning cloth to the table … …”
Niece, said: “Mom, I want to eat chicken fried tomatoes West Egg … …”
Yi Meng said: “My husband, you do not see this nuclear in date … …”
Rui Rui said: “The to fat (dog) cut the wool of the … …”
Almost every weekend, both our family always gathered together and watched the two daughter sensible, beautiful, lovely, and then the humor, humor, brought to this family a lot of fun. There will always be a few classic statement then, in the hurried moments emerge, then, people puzzled, and then, is the laughter. This is happiness, happiness was so worried about each and every person can feel each other’s happiness.
Today morning, receiving a phone call father, said to the police station not to issue him with his brother to prove paternity, pick up his father and brother insisted the paternity test to prove it to open. Brother’s ashes have been be buried, and also how to do paternity testing?
Police station in the end is what organization? Is not the original household registration data archive it? Brother before they get married with parental household accounts have been together, from newborn to 20 old, how people are now gone, according to a paternity test to prove that this staff is what reason? Whether the laws in order? Suitability?
In terms of the ethics, the deceased had gone in front of an old father, who made harsh demands sad, is not it human nature without losing it? Now, I should not have complained, but the face of such staff, make life difficult for an old man, really do not blame unbearable. Now, I should not have gas, but this time the social status of the face, body and not as a deposit, really do not gas Nan Xiao.
After several times of trouble, finally, a Public Security Bureau, the old leaders please make a telephone call is over, only to get things done. Only one letter, so dad and so on more than two hours, but also great rage.
This in the end is kind of a society how ah? Sigh!
May 5, 2010 Yi Meng Essays sentiment
Elder brother tomorrow, May 7, the instant of time so fast, he has left us more than in January. My nephew went to school yesterday, while supplies last, after passing the cemetery to visit a bit the way, brother. I dreamed that he let me cover his eyes with a black cloth, I always think it is not the frame I made to him on top of black cloth covered his eyes, so we must look.
To the cemetery, walked straight to his house. His eyes are always eye-catching vivid waiting to visit loved ones, smiling face, the next round of places, and a look of Fu Xiang. I could not help the tears out of her eyes, squatting Beiqian, took his photo, wiped it clean, dust the top has been stained, can they still look very clean. Black cloth, there were lines got in his eyes, I will next pull on the black veil to reveal his forehead. Stopped for a moment, mouth talk on a few. Afraid, anxious parents at home, on the tenacious left the brother.
Although the annual Lantern Festival, my brother and I are not necessarily happy at home, but knew that he was outside working, it does not feel empty. The festival each year, I feel a special loss, emptiness and heartache, lost like what, but how can not find, brought back the Nannai. Zhang Li, a sister with a daughter accompanied us to look at parents, with dumplings, eat glutinous rice balls, are also considered homogeneous and vice versa, even though heart is so strong miss his brother, but we are happy to spend a holiday, I suppressed in the heart.
Today, my parents built a new house to start work at home, which is within the scheme, there is no change. Old house just want to flip the first, and then in the hospital before the restart of a total of two. That is because my brother wanted to go home to live, he had built a help. Today, he is no longer needed, so old house did not move, only as new homes. Let parents live in a little more comfortable, old age has to enjoy.
To parents on the way home, I I went to the funeral service department, because the first week had to be a good brother, a “57″ should have the items to verify whether this is completed. Sun room with sun room life rules the underworld with the underworld life of radius, in reality, his brother did not complete the wish me to help him complete the underworld where he needs everything, I still help him go through properly, I want my brother no matter what space, all of life care of. Buildings, cars, mobile phones, TV, till, money tree, flowers, etc., as long as he got, I think of all he was prepared to help complete. Today, his tomb is also specially on both sides of the funds to restore the two stone lions, the price while not cheap, can be thought of as his brother bought me the smoke to save money, or very pleased that this money will be spent . People say there are “10 to run,” meaning, but also the town of Amityville Horror. Brother did not run over this life, on the left, instrument allows to really “10 to run”, and must be reborn to a good home, than on the affluence of the living.
Look at parents in the past men working outside the yard, it is full, it is busy, but also looked very happy, I had a lot of practical. In the next two months, to build a house stage, some people stay with them around, and have to work, escorted by joking, are not lonely, not like brother.
Brother, Do not worry, I will take good care of the family every family members, will often go to cemeteries to see you, you need anything, just have to tomb by me and told me that I may know that you do What, do not like living when you most need help the most difficult time, but you can not think of my sister, you are that strong character, so how much I regret ah!
Brother, see you tomorrow, go cemetery, send what you want. Suddenly, your son grew up, he knows people care about, and do not trust me to the cemetery on the school have come back with me to see you, you worry, I will take him when his own son as to educate to raise, even if the future he grew up, back to his mother’s side, I will guide him in the way and let him learn a technology of the ordinary, to support themselves and live their own life.
I want to help my mother to cook, you should definitely lot to help the weak, take good care of yourself, take good care of his uncle, bless your son safely lot somewhere, in the smooth.
March 1, 2010 Fei Lu (Yi Dream) Essay
At more than five minutes, it started to Shandong Longkou sustained more than 20 minutes of hail, to be big, number-intensive. Cross thunderstorm wind power, I stood in the corner of the balcony, with his hand hail, cold and surprised, not of those to hail a long time.
Rain small hail stopped, I stood outside the hotel and found that the majority were hail smashed street lamps, leaves hung down his head, as if experience a sudden sore Yeer hundred thousand holes.
Half-day morning, Longkou has been raining, until we set foot back to 11:30 Beijing’s way, the rain regarded as Pause. Rain, the sea, it is particularly quiet, apart from the rain line knocked out in the sea, bubbles appear, there is no one in sight, not a vessel, the beach is particularly quiet.
After the rain, the sea, from the sea breeze, the wind blowing the waves hit the beach, the sea water wet my shoe, panic in the water to escape, while waves also fall down, as if in the hide and seek. Heart, wind, sea action, everything was moving.
Longkou this trip, the mother side and her mother did not take long for car and feel tired, on the contrary, she is extremely excited and happy, because this is the first time I saw her the sea. Like her daughter, naughty, playing on the beach side, with her daughter playing with water balloons, eat barbecue, like a child happy.
Often stand in the sea shore, my heart always have a sense of return, such as the daughter of the sea, agitated and close to this piece of the sea. The time now is always to pass up, not yet had time to express her thoughts and feelings when intimate, they have to hurry to catch up to Beijing time.
When to stop for a step, Yuanmin embrace with the sea, when the mood to take a break, Zero integration with the sea, it will be ruthless with love walking time until the trivia of life is to lay down, to be around care is no longer concerned about, the day after all, somewhere in the future, waiting for me to enjoy, enjoy that piece of the sea belongs to me, really back to me.
May 30, 2010 essay recalling dreams
